5 days ago
Today I read something that said “you shouldn’t have to tell someone how to treat you”. Simple, but this really got my thought wheels turning. 💫
Why do we let others inject us with their self loathing, negative energy? Why do we want to keep people around who do not in the slightest deserve the inner beauty that so many others appreciate? Whether you’re going through it now, are getting over something like this, or are so moved past it you’re looking back wondering why the hell you were ever there, you’re not the only one.
I hear often; “But if I don’t fight for them they won’t fight for me”. “If I leave there won’t be much effort to get me back”. Enough is enough. The only way to ever have peace of mind in your home life, work life, intimate life, etc. is to be able to differentiate the energies that want to life is up, INCLUDING OUR OWN ENERGIES, and the energies that want to hold us under water until we’re drowning in THEIR crap. If you can achieve a new found level of self respect and clarity in what you not only want but need, these statements change to; “there wasn’t enough effort so I am going to go find it somewhere else”. Once you’ve achieved looking into the eyes of your demons whatever they may be, you never flee from what’s in front of you, you never settle. You have control, and you decide who’s allowed to enter your personal aura. ✨
This isn’t a selfish thing. This is what it means to love yourself.
One of the all time best pieces of advice I ever received was “If at specific moments you fall into a bad headspace, or a negative aura, take a look at who’s surrounding you, and change it”. If it’s a person, decide whether that negative every is ever going to dissolve, and is it worth what you’re feeling right now. If it’s yourself, look into the mirror and decide which parts of your soul need tending to.
Decide who you let absorb your energy, and be even more carful with who’s energy you are absorbing. Cautiously invite others to hop on your wave length, and say peace out to those who take for granted your loving embrace.
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